A wedding is one of the most anticipated ceremonies that two people,
who love one another and wish to be united in marriage, greatly anticipate. It is
an opportunity to declare and celebrate their union
and share their happiness with family and friends. Traditionally, most
wedding ceremonies is an exchange of vows, accompanied by symbolic presentations
of a couple’s vow of their love for one another, and the beginning of a new
chapter in their lives. Culturally, the objects that symbolize vary, but we
will be focusing on items usually found in a traditional Christian or Catholic
wedding in the Philippines.
Unity Candles
Unity Candles with Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
The
tradition of lighting unity candles has been a fairly recent addition to church
weddings. It symbolizes the rite of marriage, the joining together of two
families, and the love that the bride and the groom, as they start a new life
together as husband and wife.
Unity Candles with Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
Unity Candles with Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
In
the lighting of the unity candle, both the bride and groom use two flames to
light the unity candle as they bring together their love for one another,
uniting as a new couple. This indicates that two lives have now been permanently
merged. The candles used by the bride and the groom are generally left burning
beside the unity candle, which is a sign that the newly-married partners have
not lost their own sense of selves and their individual personalities.
Arhhae
Arhhae with Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
Arhhae with Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
The
wedding arhhae, which are
also called the Las arras matrimoniales, are
widely used by countries that have a deep Catholic faith and Hispanic cultural
influence. Arras is Spanish for
“earnest money”; and during the matrimonial ceremony, is presented as thirteen
gold coins, to symbolize Jesus Christ and the Twelve Apostles. It also
symbolizes the “earnest” foundation of their marriage, as they embark on a
journey that binds two individuals into their new life. These coins show that
the groom promises to provide for his bride and his new family.
The unity cord is a traditional wedding article that's also widely used in Hispanic-influenced countries, namely Spain, Mexico, and the Philippines. It symbolizes the lifetime unity of the bride and groom. During the wedding ceremony itself, the cord; a representation of the rosary, is placed to bind the couple together as they are kneeling to take their vows. After the wedding, it is a custom for the bride to keep the cord as a souvenir of this special day.
Unity Cord
Unity Cord Wire Art by Stephanie Lopez |
As additional
embellishment for the bride, Flow Jewelry and
Crafts crafted a 5-piece jewelry set. This includes an ear cuff, a large
hairpiece, and three smaller pieces to accentuate the bride’s hair. We will be writing more about these pieces on another blogpost. :)
Keeping it real.- PJV