In the Neck of It

If you’re reading this blog right now, chances are, you’re also aware of the changing trends in weddings the past few years.  Weddings, regardless of whether they are big spectacles or intimate affairs, have really become much more stylized.  From themes, to outfits, to prenuptial photos and the wedding video itself—it’s as if girls are orchestrating their own fairytales come true!!!  Heck, even the wedding bands aren’t placed in the traditional satin pillow anymore!

What girl doesn’t love a good wedding?  And who among us doesn’t feel a thrill when getting dressed up for them.  You ever felt like it’s your chance to participate in some sort of romantic comedy film, even just an unknown extra?  But this time, that isn’t gonna happen.  Because it’s your big day, and today, you are the most beautiful woman on the earth.

Back to styling though, there really are a multitude of options available.  Some girls go all out with the ball skirt and the fully beaded bodice.  Others prefer a simple yet elegant column, while some hover in between.  That’s okay! It’s your day, you ought to have fun! If you want, you can up the ante with the perfect accessories to match your look.  Today, we’ll talk necklaces.

Depending on the style of your gown, you want to use a neckpiece (or any accessory, for that matter) that complements it instead of distracting or overpowering.  Most especially, all the pieces need to come together to allow your inner princess to shine.  Here’s a tip: USE YOUR NECKLINE AS A POINT OF REFERENCE.  If you’re showing off a large portion of your neck and shoulder, you can wear a statement necklace.  This can also go with the opposite, which is a round neckline close to the base of your neck.  If it’s in between the two, you might consider a simpler or slightly less ornate neckpiece, or even skip it altogether and substitute with earrings or a belt instead (more on that in another article).  

Also, KEEP YOUR THEME and VENUE IN MIND.  Make sure the style of the necklaces, especially if it's a statement piece, is in line with the theme of your wedding.  It could take from the color scheme to a more literal translation even.  Vintage theme? Try an ornate cameo neckpiece.  Fun and playful wedding?  Now might be a good time to use a kooky neckpiece.  Traditional wedding?  You can't go wrong if you're dripping in pearls or diamonds.  Take note of the venue of the wedding too.  Beach wedding?  Something with pearls or shells would be nice. 

And of course, ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR PERSONALITY! Comfort is key.  If you're the type of person who finds necklaces itchy, don't overdo the necklace--your grimace might be caught on cam!  Just go with whatever makes you happy.  Yes, in spite of the rules! Because in the end, if it feels right to you, then that's the best choice! It’s your day and you can do whatever you want ;)